Patience

Those who encourage the development of patience in others without also instructing them in how to avoid elevating negativity into a virtue instead, are in fact unable to teach at all.
Better to say nothing about patience than to enjoin patience and instead produce an excuse for laziness.

Knowing How to Know

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